What's Your Love Language? Take this Quiz to Find Out

At Love Tales, we spend a lot of time thinking about what makes relationships last. It's kind of our thing. And over time, we've come to believe that the couples who understand each other deeply - not just the big romantic gestures, but the quiet, everyday ways they need to feel loved - are the ones who build something truly enduring. That's why we recommend the Official Love Language® Quiz.

What Is the Official Love Language® Quiz?

Developed from the work of relationship counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, the Official Love Language® Quiz is a free, research-backed quiz that helps you discover your primary love language - the way you most naturally give and receive love. Since its introduction, the Five Love Languages framework has helped millions of people around the world understand something surprisingly simple but profoundly impactful: we don't all feel loved in the same way.

The five love languages are:

1. Words of Affirmation - feeling loved through verbal encouragement and expressions of appreciation
2. Acts of Service - feeling loved when others do things to help or support you
3. Receiving Gifts - feeling loved through thoughtful, meaningful gestures and tokens
4. Quality Time - feeling loved through undivided attention and shared presence
5. Physical Touch - feeling loved through closeness, comfort, and physical connection

Knowing which language speaks to you most - and which one your partner leads with - is one of the most practical things you can do for your relationship.

How to Use Your Results

Knowing your love language is only the beginning. The real magic happens when you apply it - when you start noticing how your partner expresses love, and consciously begin expressing it back in the way they actually receive it.

A few ways to put your results to work:

Have the conversation. Share your results with your partner and ask them to take the quiz too. The discussion that follows is often more valuable than the results themselves.

Look back at your relationship. You'll likely start recognizing moments where a disconnect in love languages caused unnecessary friction - and moments where you got it exactly right without even realizing it.

Use it as a foundation, not a label. Love languages are a lens, not a limit. They're a starting point for deeper understanding, not a box to put yourself in.

Take the free Official Love Language® Quiz here.